Change…

Growth is a necessary, but often painful, part of life.

Most often, when one begins to attract and develop their passion in life, the changes required to realize this will affect those closest and dearest to them. This is a very difficult time of turmoil and unrest, as each individual must now accept or reject a new identity. It is important to understand the person affecting the change is still the same person who loves them very much and wants what is best for all, which includes being honest with themselves while they begin to live their life.

This does not mean abandonment, but very often means things will be much better for all concerned once things settle, if all choose this outcome. It is also necessary to realize no one is at fault. There is no one to blame, no bitterness exists, and a deep rooted love remains. It should also be pointed out that very often change has been in the works for quite some time, with very little evidence, and that change is the individual’s choice—and can only be their choice—not the fault of another.

One of the things they neglect to mention when applying The Law of Attraction, is that once you have laid out your desired life and all the components of that desired life begin to manifest themselves on the physical plane, there will almost always be much pain experienced by those affected, especially if those being affected have no understanding of how and why this Universal Law operates. This pain is so totally unnecessary and change should be a welcome thing. Sadly very few will ever see growth this way, unless they believe that change was their idea.

— Anonymous